Ending

Yes, as we date in our 40's we will always have the wonderful beginnings, then of course we have the endings.  Don't you love the first dates, the kissing and just the getting to know one another is so intense.  BUT and there is always a BUT, something doesn't feel right, you know it, you feel it, but we stick it out until we hear from everyone around us to "give him up", "really you are way to good for him."   Oh alright, so we end the relationship, even though I am not quite sure we call it a relationship, more like just someone who fills some sexual need or one satisfaction we haven't had for awhile.  However, we realize our friends are right and we end it.  It is never easy, I don't care if it is 1 month or 6 months, there is still a part of us that yearns for something.  Because obviously we attracted to this person for a reason, now we know it is Done.  Hard to swallow for a moment, then we move on!  BECAUSE WE CAN!